Tunisia, a country full of contrasts

Even if it’s been 4 months since I’m in Tunisia, I’m still surprised how different this country can be from one place to another, from a part of the city to another one. Sometimes I love it, sometimes I hate it…it is really impossible to be calm not even one day per week. Where is the calm me? I don’t know…where are you Lavinia? I even started to use bad words. Finally I learnt them in French after 13 years of studying it. Thank you Omar for being such a good teacher! Now I can practice them when someone makes me angry especially when I cross the street or I walk alone on the street.

Tunisian Environmental Symbol

There are many beautiful things that I love about Tunisia and many things that I can’t understand. Tunisia is such a beautiful country… There are places here that make you feel that you are in a dream land. You saw them only in pictures or in the movies and now you are here in the middle of it, a European in an Arab country. You can really challenge yourself… what makes me really sad is the fact that almost everyone here don’t care about the environment, about the city, the planet… Many people don’t know anything about what sustainability means . This is something that I can’t understand. Even if you don’t realize how important it is to protect the nature and to try to reduce the pollution, I’m sure that nobody likes to live in a dirty city and in a dirty world. It’s really impossible to like the smell and all the garbage that flies sometimes in the windy Tunis. At the beginning I couldn’t believe there are no trash cans in the city. There are only a few…FEW in some places. The majority of the time when you want to throw away something, you can’t find one. So you can just put it in your purse and throw it away at home or at the office. But…of course that majority of the people prefer to throw it away on the street. So it is normal to walk on the street, to eat something and then to throw away the package after you finished your sandwich. This is available for everything that it’s garbage, everything that you don’t need anymore. I don’t like to see such a beautiful country full of garbage!

The problem is that this is something you learn from your family and your friends. If everyone does the same, of course you’ll not question yourself to do differently.

I thought that if you are from a wealthy family, this means that you are educated and more aware of how important is to live in a clean place. But…NO, it has nothing to do with it! To have higher education it has nothing to do with ecological education, awareness and acting sustainable. I can even say that I was so surprised to see even people that say they care about the environment opening their car window and throwing away their trash. It’s easier than to wait and to throw it away at home.

But the same time, I’m very happy that I met some Tunisian people that are aware about these things and they act sustainable, being an example for the others and try to make a change in their society. Thameur I’m very proud of you! View of Mediterranean Sea from Korbous

What is even more surprising for me is the fact that Tunisian people love beautiful things and beautiful places. So I can’t understand why don’t  they respect their country? Why do they have to transform it in a place full of garbage? Why majority of the people are not aware of the consequences of their actions?

When I was in Kerkennah, a Tunisian island , there were so many beer cans and cigarettes in the sea, on the beach…even in that place they call the Paradise.

It is so incredible that one can find so many beautiful places also, traditional architecture, wonderful sea and sky. It is really  nice to have the sea so close to the city, to see it almost everywhere. I love the color of the sky and the Mediterranean sea in Tunisia. This is absolutely wonderful, so calm, so amazing… just Tunisia.

Until now I have visited Kerkennah Island; Korbous a small city known for the thermal water springs; Bizerte a city from North-Western part of Tunisia from where the French people didn’t want to leave after they lost the colony; Sidi Bou Said, the white and blue city; Hammamett, the first touristic place in Tunisia; Carthage, the place where the Romans fought against Hannibal and in the end they conquered the citadel and transformed it in a Roman province.

In Korbous, Cap Bon

Korbous

The good part is that being a tourist in Tunisia, you don’t need so much money and there are many nice things to visit close to Tunis. So it’s quite easy to visit them. Only the South and the desert it will take more time and money.

Another important aspect is the difference between poor people and rich people. There is such a big difference between a region of Le Grand Tunis and another one. Now you are in a very clean and rich place and in 5 minutes by car you arrive in a very poor and dirty place. I could say that Tunisia is a country of contrasts, so many contrasts.

The hierarchy is so big, one can see this at the work place between the general manager and the employees but also in every day life. The rich people have the habit to treat those who are poorer as if they are inferior.  In my opinion if one has a better financial situation, one has more responsibilities in this world. It should not be taken for granted.

“My Tunisian mother” told me that she has a friend that is secretary and her boss told her to clean his shoes. What ?!  I can’t believe this is still possible in 2010. Do people really feel good about themselves humiliating their employees? Do they really feel good having this fake power?

One thing that it is really driving me crazy is the transportation. Oh my God!!! Taking the yellow bus is an extreme adventure for me in Tunis. Which is the maximum number of people that fit in a bus? Come to Tunis, take the yellow bus and you’ll see! After a few months of living here it became funny. I cannot feel angry anymore, I just learn to accept some things that are impossible to change and the most important thing do not criticize, to have an objective argument and to try to be an example and to improve myself every day. This is how we can make a change!

Thank you Tunisia for challenging myself!

Au café des délices…

 

If you are French music lover, maybe you heard about the song Café des délices…it’s a known song of Patrick Bruel a Franco – Algerian singer. This wonderful café really exists: Café des délices…

And it is in Sidi Bou Said (the mot-à mot translation, word by word is Le Monsieur, père de Said; sidi means “mister”, bou means “father” and Said is an Arabic name ),a small city close to the capital Tunis. You can reach there by train or by car in maximum 30 minutes.

This small city is like a fairytale place or it was called “le petit paradis en blanc et bleu“.The architectural style is a combination between Arabic and Andalouse. All the houses are painted in blue and white, there are narrow streets, very nice traditional big doors and everywhere you look around you can see the Mediterranean Sea.

Le café des délices it’s an open air café, on the top of the hill. The view is absolutely impressive. You can see “Le Port avec les bateaux”, the sea and the mountains. Something really amazing about the Tunisia is that you can see the Mediterranean Sea and the mountains very close one from another.

You can enjoy a coffee, a classic thé vert à la menthe (green tea with mint) very popular in Maghreb or a chicha (water pipe, also a very popular thing in Arabic countries) with real tobacco or a flavored one.

Other great place is a little “endroit”, close to the train station, where you find juice fruit 100% natural. The one with bananas and dates is awesome. If you like sweeties and you don’t want to eat so much sugar this one is perfect. It’s like you put 0.5 kg of sugar because of the dates that were mixed with the bananas.

If you are a beauty lover this is the perfect place for you. For many centuries, Sidi Bou Said was the favorite place of artists. Flaubert and Simone de Beauvoir were only some of the people that were fascinated by this amazing Tunisian city.

If you like photography, it is also very cool to practice your skills. Even with an unprofessional camera, you can take great pictures. The color of the houses, the big and colored doors, the sky and the sea are incredible. It’s such a peaceful place, it’s like you escaped from the reality of pollution and traffic jams and you arrived in a magical place.

 

 

My first contact with Tunisia

Goes like this..

One day, I found a photo album on Facebook: “My internship in Tunisia”. It was the album of a Polish girl.I didn’t know her personally but I decided to email her and ask more about her experience. She told she met a Romanian girl during her traineeship in Sfax. Diana was still in Tunisia and she could maybe help me to get the right decision.  I was extremely happy to find out there was someone that speaks my language.

We exchanged emails and she was very nice with me. She gave me the information I needed but in the same time she let me discover Tunisia by myself. She didn’t want to influence my impressions about the country and about the culture.

She was the only one in that country that helped me not to lose my focus and to become stronger. She thought me a great life lesson and made me realize what a lucky person I am.

In the last 6 months, I moved to her place. It was nice to come back home and find her there waiting for me. Our daily discussions, grumpy mornings, funny evenings with Dr. House (in the meantime I succeeded to convert her into a DR. House addict) and other movies, Sunday mornings in the market, walking on the beach, endless Jasmin evenings in the garden or on the roof…All those things have a special place in my heart.

She is a great source of inspiration for many people. For that and much more, I admire and I love her. Not because she’s Romanian, but because she’s one of my best friends and one of the strongest girls I know.

Thank you for everything you did for me and for being such a wonderful person! It’s so cool we met there “pe alei cu palmieri”. Multumesc draga mea!

Why Tunisia?

 

Going to Tunisia wasn’t something that I planed. When I’ve decided to go in a internship, I wanted to go somewhere in Europe: a cheaper flight ticket, a culture similar to mine, less problems. (very wrong ideas on that time) I wasn’t prepared for an adventure, I didn’t want to have such a strong cultural shock (again I had no idea what I was thinking) …but in the end, because of many factors…I took the decision to apply for this internship in Tunisia. “I will try, we’ll see what is going to happen next…”

The only good thing about this internship was the fact it gave me the opportunity to improve my French skills. Imagine I’ll speak only in French one year!! Wow!!! This will be cool and I’ll get to know more about the North African culture. hmmm…this will be a cool experience. See, we found some advantages in all this. What can I wish more: French language and exotic places?

Maybe this is the best way to challenge myself and to discover a new way of living so I can appreciate more what I have…

So I arrived there, in Tunisia, in the middle of the chaos. But in this chaos I’ve also found some people that helped me not to lose my equilibrium. Thanks to these people I lived so many wonderful moments, I discovered the beauty of exchange program and I started to see the world in a different way. Impossible is nothing! I met so many wonderful people and we have so nice memories together. I have the perfect life right now and I’m so lucky to be surrounded by so many wonderful friends: my Tunisian family, my Romanian friend, my co-worker and my friend Habiba, the other AIESEC trainees and my other Tunisian friends…

Thank you guys for making it a wonderful learning experience!

The beginning

A kid sitting in Cluj-Napoca’s airport, being scared, happy and sad the same time. Costel telling me at the phone “see you soon somewhere in the world” and my friend’s smile (the one who took me to the airport) giving me thousands reasons why Tunisia will be a fantastic experience. I had thousand thoughts before boarding and eyes in tears realizing how far I’ll be from everyone for such a long time. Asking myself – “Are you crazy? You are a girl, you are only 22 years old and you are planning to go by yourself to a Maghrebin country for your internship. Yes, you are definitely insane!!!”

2 minutes before take-off I got this text message: “Hey AIESEC! How do you feel? F…ing excellent?!” It was exactly when I was on the plane’s stairs. Someone really knows when is the best timing to send text messages!

Because of all my lame crying, I think I looked like a “little frog” when I arrived in Tunis. Even if this happened three months ago, I have the feeling it’s been long time ago. Time goes by , we change and hopefully we learn. This is how life is. I’m happy and grateful for having the chance to discover a new culture and to meet wonderful people with whom I can share all these.

My first flight was very nice1 It was so beautiful to flight at the night! Cluj is so beautiful from above. After two and a half hours we landed in Tunis. There where some guys from AIESEC Tunisia waiting for me in the airport. Thanks God someone was waiting! To mention: only guys…I never felt so strange to be the only girl in a group of people, the only girl walking on the street at that hour. This has only happened a few times. It has been scary and strange. My first week in Tunisia was a chaos. I always felt like a little puppy or a luggage carried from one place to another. All the time being the only girl, all the time feeling ignored because they were talking mostly in Arabic. I never knew exactly where are we going, what are we going to do.I only found out after they already took the decision.

But the second week things have changed a little bit. I moved for one week to the trainees’s flat in Passage (in the city center). Spending time with them was nice. I was very happy to live with some people that have almost the same way of living like me. It seems that we, people, we are always looking for people that share the same things with us, that somehow represent what it’s “normal” for us.

Because 6 people (Maja from Croatia, Lindsay from Canada, Steli from Bulgaria, Victor and Debora from Brazil, Carlos from Portugal) shared the same apartment, I couldn’t stay there for long. It was something temporary. There was no place for me. And because AIESEC took so long to find an apartment I decided to accept Hela’s proposal to move for a while to her place. She was like a miracle. I moved to her place and after a week there, she proposed me to spend the whole year in her house. Her family started to love me and they are so nice with me. I feel they treat me like a part of the family. I can’t believe that some people that barely knew me, accepted me so easily. I feel privileged to have the chance to live with them and learn from them.

It feels so nice to have a family in Tunisia! And I have the trainees too. Two families!